This actually exists. In 2014. I have a Canadian partner, I am mid transition…I knew I had to be careful but holy shit. This actually terrifies me. How does this make any sense? Why do gender markers even exist on photo ID’s?

tbh this is nothing short of a declaration of war on trans bodies and I am ashamed of my country for allowing anything like this to happen.


does not APPEAR to be of the gender indicated ??? WHAT who the fuck decides that. this is beyond asinine

Dascha Polanco attends the 66th Annual Primetime Emmy Awards held at Nokia Theatre L.A. Live on August 25, 2014 in Los Angeles, California.

(Source: lizgillies, via orangeskins)

  • 16 year old child: mom, dad: I'm gay/lesbian/bi/pan
  • Straight parents: you're too young to know what your sexuality is! It's just a phase.
  • Baby boy: *stares at a baby girl for no reason other than the fact that babies stare at everything*
  • Straight parents: oooh! Ladies man! We're gonna have to keep the girls offa you!

The bookstore in my town has a racism section in honor of Ferguson and it gives me a lot of hope


The bookstore in my town has a racism section in honor of Ferguson and it gives me a lot of hope

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straight men.

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wow.. the fucking story line. speechless. 

It’s such an important time for this film to come out.

It’s so easy for the film idustry to show people we fought against in the past as real people. But it’s something new to put a face a name and a story to the people that so many of us see as the enemy.

Please watch the trailer. This’ll stir up a lot of shit with the american public but I have a good feeling about this movie.

I need to watch this because of reasons. And a lot of you do too.

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Yes, it’s as bad as it sounds, and this article can’t stop gushing about how ‘fresh’ and ‘interesting’ the idea is.

As a reader of Ariel Schrag, I’m confused. This really isn’t her typical MO, and she’s normally very adept at discussing these issues in fictional manners. I hope it’s not the awfulness it sounds like, but I’ll wait until people actually read it.

Lots of people have read it already and say it is as bad as it sounds.

The premise honestly seems really damn gross, and from what I’ve heard about the ending, there is no redeeming lesson or conclusion to excuse a story like that.


Whereas in the first stage of recovery survivors deal with social adversity mainly by retreating to a protected environment, in the third stage survivors may wish to take the initiative in confronting others. It is at this point that survivors are ready to reveal their secrets, to challenge the indifference or censure of bystanders, and to accuse those who have abused them.

Survivors who grew up in abusive families have often cooperated for years with a family rule of silence. In preserving the family secret, they carry the weight of a burden that does not belong to them. At this point in their recovery, survivors may choose to declare to their families that the rule of silence has been irrevocably broken. In so doing, they renounce the burden of shame, guilt, and responsibility, and place this burden on the perpetrator, where it properly belongs.

Family confrontations or disclosures can be highly empowering when they are properly timed and well planned. They should not be undertaken until the survivor feels ready to speak the truth as she knows it, without need for confirmation and without fear of consequences. The power of the disclosure rests in the act of telling the truth; how the family responds is immaterial. While validation from the family can be gratifying when it occurs, a disclosure session may be successful even if the family responds with unyielding denial or fury. In this circumstance the survivor has the opportunity to observe the family’s behavior and to enlarge her understanding of the pressures she faced as a child.


— Judith Herman, Trauma and Recovery: The aftermath of violence—from domestic abuse to political terror (via disabledbyculture)

I saw this in the garbage today and I couldn’t resist.

I saw this in the garbage today and I couldn’t resist.



someone should make yaoi bingo cards seriously





someone should make yaoi bingo cards seriously



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  • SYNTHIA-CHINA BLAST DID NOT RAPE EBONY NICOLE WILLIAMS. There was never any evidence to support the allegation that she did, and she was acquitted after witnesses discredited the claim.

  • SYNTHIA-CHINA BLAST DID NOT MURDER EBONY NICOLE WILLIAMS. She had no role in the murder whatsoever - she was called upon to clean up the scene, and could have faced serious repercussions had she not done it.
  • SYNTHIA-CHINA BLAST IS A LIFELONG SURVIVOR OF INCARCERATION. She was first incarcerated when she was 16 years old, and has endured 22 years of sexual abuse, solitary confinement, constant harassment by law enforcement, and deprivation of needed care. By submitting her statement to the Sylvia Rivera Law Project for Laverne to read, she put herself at tremendous personal risk for the sake of speaking out against the violences committed against her and other trans women of color in & out of prison.

Given these facts, what TWEFs are doing here should be obvious. Laverne Cox, and the woman she is giving voice to, are trans women of color taking a stand against the mass incarceration and institutional abuse of trans women of color. TWEFs, due to their dogged loyalty to transmisogyny and white supremacy, are deeply invested in the mass incarceration and institutional abuse of trans women of color. To the end of derailing resistance, they are callously leveraging (a) the death of a young girl, & (b) the discourse that trans women of color are physically and sexually violent, against both Laverne and Synthia. It’s shameful, evil, transparent shit.

Signal boost the shit out of this post, make your own posts to help spread the word, and do your part to actively rebuff & discredit the violent claims being made against these two women. DON’T BE COMPLICIT IN THIS CAMPAIGN AGAINST LAVERNE & SYNTHIA!!! 

My dash blew up with people blasting Laverne for supporting a convicted rapist in prison shortly after she made that speech. Initially hearing about it made me feel gross and awful, but I should have considered the source. TERFs are muddling completely disregarding and lying about the facts in order to try and make their condemnation of Laverne and other trans women more justified.

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An old sketch of Black Rage, done in my living room. Strange, the course of things. Peace for MO.


Lyrics: http://mslaurynhill.com/post/95329923112/black-rage-sketch

Anonymous said: What's wrong with saying sexuality is fluid?


Because it’s not fluid for everyone. Some people are strictly heterosexual and some are strictly homosexual and it’s really homophobic to assume that everyone’s sexuality is fluid because then we could just make ourselves straight in a way. I tried for years to convince myself it was fluid so that I could be in a relationship with a man because I was so afraid and had internalized a lot of shit. It’s not.